I wanted to see what your most recent post was about and what was going on with Discord, so I did a rudimentary online search. One of the first hits I found was a reddit-post from a year ago and what the user there wrote sounded 'rather familiar'*:
https://www.reddit.com/r/Scams/comments/180f5n9/if_gain_a_message_from_friend_claiming_that_they/
Depending on what service you used to transfer money, they might be able to transfer it back to you - if you are able to explain the situation calmly to them.
solarfiction
dont like 'cord either, too lagg y (although i do use it from time to time)